Another call.

I am upstairs cleaning, trying to declutter. We are ready for the next stage of our lives. After many years of work, we long for simplicity.

I hear my husband speaking on the phone. I know that tone of voice. It says, I’m here for you. The tone is serious, the tone is compassionate.

My husband comes upstairs.

I look at him, “whats up?” I am sitting on the bed folding clothes.

“Another cancer, 9/11 related.”

I stand up.

“Yeah… they weren’t feeling right and went to the doctor. Doctor ran a lot of blood tests. Everything came back normal, but he knew something wasn’t right. A friend of his who’s a nurse took him in for more testing. When she came in with the results, she was crying. 

We looked at each other in silence.

It’s not going to be all right.

Each year, more names are added to the list.

My husband responded on 9/11 and spent a year working at the site afterward. Twenty-five years later, it continues.

The losses.

The cancers.

The memories that return every time another phone call comes.

We are reminded of the injustice of that day—and of how its consequences continue to unfold.

People went to work and never came home.

First responders ran toward the unimaginable. Some never returned. Others survived only to carry a sentence: watching friends become sick one by one, attending funeral after funeral, and reliving the memories each time another diagnosis comes. 

Let’s not forget. Three weeks after the cancer diagnosis, after the phone call, he is gone. It’s August 22, 2026 and today he is gone. Almost twenty five years after the planes crashed into the towers. This is the part of his life where he should have started enjoying retirement. Where he should have started living.

Let’s never forget.

Not because of hatred. Not because of prejudice toward any group. But because freedom, democracy, and human life matter.

9/11 was never about political parties, republican or democrat, rich or poor or race. It was about innocent people going about their ordinary lives—going to work, boarding airplanes, caring for their families—and having those lives shattered by an act of terror.

It is a reminder that freedom cannot be taken for granted. It was a reminder that our freedom was under attack, our safety and democratic ideals. 

My husband can never forget. Neither can the families who continue receiving these phone calls decades later. For us, 9/11 is not simply history. It still lives with us. It appears in medical diagnoses, in empty chairs at gatherings, in memorial services, and in quiet moments when the phone rings.

Freedom is not free.

Democracy is fragile.

The events of one day can echo across generations, touching people who had no idea their lives were about to change forever.

That is why we remember—not to live in fear but to honor those who were lost, to support those who continue to bear the physical and emotional scars, and to remind ourselves that protecting freedom, compassion, and one another is a responsibility we all share. 


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